I fully connected with this message from Dr. Gary Chapman who is the author of The 5 Love Languages. It is a gentle reminder to have appreciation for our relationships. Given enough time, conflict and frustration will inevitably arise within relationships. Whether a coworker, friend, parent, child, or spouse, one simply cannot avoid the …
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Graciously Accepting Constructive Criticism
Recently, I was part of a group evaluating the performance of a leader, and I was surprised at how physically and mentally draining it was. We have completed reviews in the past, and I firmly believe that they should always be honest, respectful, and authentic. Collectively, we are aiming for success of an organization with a mission …
Is Your Moral Compass Calibrated?
A couple of weeks ago, a good friend called me as he was caught in a dilemma and wanted advice. It was a very simple transaction that could’ve turned into a very bad situation had my friend’s moral compass not been calibrated correctly. I stayed engaged to ensure my friend and other associates were making good decisions and acting …
It Isn’t Easy, But Definitely Possible
My husband, Scott, and I celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary this week. As I remember the beginning of our engagement and first couple of years of marriage, I am amazed at how different we are now. Scott and I met in optometry school in Boston, dated towards the end of my residence on the East Coast, and had a long distance relationship. I …