{"id":437,"date":"2015-08-15T03:21:22","date_gmt":"2015-08-15T03:21:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/?p=437"},"modified":"2015-08-15T03:22:24","modified_gmt":"2015-08-15T03:22:24","slug":"leave-me-alone-republished-from-1915","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/?p=437","title":{"rendered":"Leave Me Alone! (republished from 1\/9\/15)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Traveling has taught me to be more observant, more organized, and more flexible. \u00a0Most of the time I am responsible for my schedule, and I have realized that the majority of the time I am alone.<\/p>\n<p>The luxury is that I don\u2019t have a routine, I am not worrying about my daughter\u2019s schedule, and that I can choose what I would like to eat. \u00a0As much as I love spending time at home and with my family, my alone time allows me to reflect and be quiet. \u00a0This may sound frightening or not fun, but I truly appreciate this time.<\/p>\n<p>In September, I traveled to Asia and spent a lot of time alone. \u00a0I didn\u2019t feel the need to occupy every moment in the day, and interact with as many people as I could. \u00a0I became very self-aware, especially when eating alone. \u00a0It also gave me time to realign with my personal and professional wish list. \u00a0My favorite realization was that I was able to distinguish between being alone versus being lonely.<\/p>\n<p>I was chatting with a good friend who is single. \u00a0We were talking about how empowered you feel when you are alone. \u00a0There are times that he would love a companion to attend events together versus attending alone, but the freedom has made him a more independent, and in my opinion, a happier person.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, it\u2019s always wonderful to share experiences with others, but I do believe that everyone should allow time to be alone where you are the decision maker for all of your activities.\u00a0 I also believe it\u2019s important to <i>enjoy<\/i> being alone.<\/p>\n<p>At this time of the year, I believe a lot of us go through an evaluation of the year and set up resolutions for the upcoming year. \u00a0I encourage you to allocate some time for yourself &#8211; to quiet your mind\u00a0and be autonomous.<\/p>\n<p><\/p><p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Traveling has taught me to be more observant, more organized, and more flexible. \u00a0Most of the time I am responsible for my schedule, and I have realized that the majority of the time I am alone. The luxury is that I don\u2019t have a routine, I am not worrying about my daughter\u2019s schedule, and that<\/p>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/?p=437\"> <div class=\"readmorelink\"><div class=\"rmtext\">Read More<\/div><\/div><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-437","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-enlighten","7":"entry"},"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3sJ0Y-73","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=437"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":438,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437\/revisions\/438"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}