{"id":378,"date":"2014-04-04T15:32:24","date_gmt":"2014-04-04T15:32:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/?p=378"},"modified":"2014-04-04T15:32:24","modified_gmt":"2014-04-04T15:32:24","slug":"i-want-to-see-you-be-brave-a-beginners-guide-to-networking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/?p=378","title":{"rendered":"I Want To See You Be Brave &#8211; A Beginner&#8217;s Guide to Networking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--?xml version=\"1.0\" encoding=\"UTF-8\" standalone=\"no\"?--><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drkareneng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/2014-03-27-22.15.34.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"379\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/?attachment_id=379\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drkareneng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/2014-03-27-22.15.34.jpg?fit=1024%2C719&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1024,719\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"2014-03-27 22.15.34\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drkareneng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/2014-03-27-22.15.34.jpg?fit=1024%2C719&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-379 alignnone\" alt=\"2014-03-27 22.15.34\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drkareneng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/2014-03-27-22.15.34.jpg?resize=569%2C400&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"569\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drkareneng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/2014-03-27-22.15.34.jpg?resize=569%2C400&amp;ssl=1 569w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drkareneng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/2014-03-27-22.15.34.jpg?resize=427%2C300&amp;ssl=1 427w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drkareneng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/2014-03-27-22.15.34.jpg?resize=400%2C280&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/drkareneng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/2014-03-27-22.15.34.jpg?w=1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 569px) 100vw, 569px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I love the song\u00a0\u201cBrave\u201d by Sara Barielles on many levels. \u00a0When talking with North Park University graduating students at the Etiquette and Networking dinner on March 27, 2014, I wanted them\u00a0to walk away with the beliefs from her lyrics of \u00a0\u201cYou can be amazing!&#8221; and &#8220;Say what you want to say honestly, I want to see you be brave.\u201d<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<p>What does this have to do with Networking? \u00a0I think that these are a couple components of successful networking. One is believing you are amazing, not arrogant. You have a great story based on YOUR life. \u00a0Another component is bravery when interacting with others either in a familiar or unfamiliar setting.<\/p>\n<p>A couple of items to remember when introducing yourself include:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Introduce yourself using your name<\/li>\n<li>Shake hands<\/li>\n<li>Have eye contact<\/li>\n<li>Speak clearly<\/li>\n<li>Speak confidently with a good flow<\/li>\n<li>Make yourself\u00a0memorable? (be authentic and compelling)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><b>Networking. What exactly is it? \u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">Networking is such a powerful entity. \u00a0<\/span>It\u2019s an exchange of information between individuals and groups. \u00a0<span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">You\u2019ve heard of\u00a0\u201cIt\u2019s not what you know, it\u2019s who you\u00a0know.\u201d \u00a0There is true validity to this; not saying you don\u2019t have to be knowledgeable, but networking yields knowledge beyond yourself. \u00a0If you have a strong network, you have access to answers and solutions versus obtaining it blindly both professionally and personally. \u00a0 Wouldn\u2019t you rather call someone you know and trust to help you with an electrical problem in your home versus google\u00a0\u201celectricians\u201d and pick one randomly? \u00a0 \u00a0Have you ever gotten an opportunity to do something perhaps an\u00a0internship, a job, go to an event, got a huge discount all because\u00a0<i>someone\u00a0<\/i>provided you an introduction?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">You only have one shot and 10 seconds to make a first impression so let\u2019s talk about making YOU as amazing as you can be.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">\u00a0<\/span>Specific tips to try<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>My mantra is to try and make everything a no brainer. How you take care of yourself is typically the first impression of you. \u00a0Let\u2019s eliminate the variables.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">YOU: Physical Aspect<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">Dress appropriately for the situation (business attire vs nightclub attire, be clean and pressed, shoes in good shape)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">Hygiene (clean hair, clean body, good breath, appropriate make up, cologne\/perfume appropriate, nails trimmed)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">Posture<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Be on time<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>YOU: Mental Aspect<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Check your attitude: Are you conveying a positive of\u00a0negative attitude?<\/li>\n<li>Are you feeling good about yourself?<\/li>\n<li>Eat good foods<\/li>\n<li>Exercise<\/li>\n<li>Get enough sleep<\/li>\n<li>Reduce your stress<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>YOU and Others: Psychological Aspect<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Make sure you are listening<\/li>\n<li>Try and Ask applicable questions<\/li>\n<li>Reengage if you are interrupted<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>My Secret to Networking<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">I\u00a0want to tell you my secret about being an effective networker. \u00a0When I meet someone,\u00a0<b>I get to know them regardless of what they can do for me. \u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">There is a delicate balance of meeting someone deliberately at a networking event because you want the opportunity for the internship or job. \u00a0My advice is to be authentic and compelling by saying something like:\u00a0\u201cThis may not be the right time, but can I follow up with you to discuss the opportunity of working with you?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">Networking As A Way Of Life<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You never know who you are going to run into, and then you never know what opportunities they may bring. \u00a0So it is important to know what your brand is, what you represent, what you want to do and how you are going to get there.You know how excited you get about things you are passionate about, and sometimes you can talk endlessly about it. \u00a0Why wouldn\u2019t you surround yourself with that passion?<\/p>\n<p>My brand is strongly linked to my Twitter profile: CEO of an engineering firm, President of a wine branding company, golf and Harley enthusiast, mom, and a passion to empower women &amp; girls.<\/p>\n<p>So I challenge you to come up with your brand. \u00a0And if you have, do you need to revisit it and revise?<\/p>\n<p>One thing to remember: Networking gets easier and better the more you do it.<span style=\"font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p><p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I love the song\u00a0\u201cBrave\u201d by Sara Barielles on many levels. \u00a0When talking with North Park University graduating students at the Etiquette and Networking dinner on March 27, 2014, I wanted them\u00a0to walk away with the beliefs from her lyrics of \u00a0\u201cYou can be amazing!&#8221; and &#8220;Say what you want to say honestly, I want to<\/p>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/?p=378\"> <div class=\"readmorelink\"><div class=\"rmtext\">Read More<\/div><\/div><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[13,11],"tags":[32,30,31,29],"class_list":{"0":"post-378","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-empower","7":"category-exposure","8":"tag-etiquette","9":"tag-keynote","10":"tag-networking","11":"tag-north-park-university","12":"entry","13":"has-post-thumbnail"},"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3sJ0Y-66","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/378","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=378"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/378\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":387,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/378\/revisions\/387"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=378"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=378"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=378"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}