{"id":354,"date":"2013-11-12T17:34:59","date_gmt":"2013-11-12T17:34:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/?p=354"},"modified":"2013-11-12T17:36:03","modified_gmt":"2013-11-12T17:36:03","slug":"celebrate-good-times-cmon-my-25th-high-school-reunion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/drkareneng.com\/?p=354","title":{"rendered":"Celebrate Good Times C’mon! – My 25th High School Reunion"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Conant High School 25th reunion
Allison Goodman Spaitis & Karen Eng<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

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Is it truly a milestone when you’re invited to your 25th high school reunion? \u00a0I’m not convinced it’s a milestone, but more of a celebration of life amongst my peers – many of whom I’ve grown up with since the second grade. \u00a0Obviously, I felt different compared to my 10 year reunion and I can clearly state why. \u00a0I was at a different stage in my life – newly engaged and a few years out of graduate school. \u00a0At the 25th year high school reunion, we are in our early 40s, have been working for a couple decades, and (lightly or heavily) seasoned in marriage, family, and children. \u00a0Here are a few things that I took away from the evening that I believe are true across the board whether you’re attending a reunion or not:<\/p>\n

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  1. Be proud of yourself, but tone down the bragging.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0It seemed like most of my classmates were comfortable sharing what was going on in their lives. \u00a0Whether a professional or stay at home mom or a combination, it didn’t matter. \u00a0Their eyes lit up when they were talking about their children and\/or their satisfaction with their career choice. \u00a0It made for such a great evening with no “one upping” each other.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
  2. Enjoy talking about the past, but be optimistic that the best is still to come.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0There were a couple of stories about high school, but they were good memories that made the group smile. \u00a0Memories are great, but if you are stuck in high school, it limits the possibilities of what the world can offer.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
  3. Be genuinely happy for your friends, acquaintances, peers, classmates, family versus compare yourself to them or be jealous.<\/strong> \u00a0It was a genuine pleasure to listen to what my high school friends were currently doing. \u00a0 \u00a0It was inspiring to hear what made them happy, and seriously, I felt everyone was SO nice.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
  4. Eliminate the variables so you have the confidence to talk to whomever you interact with.<\/strong> \u00a0Since you haven’t seen some people in awhile, of course, you want to look good. \u00a0I would think that new haircuts, new makeup, and new fashion will make you self conscious. \u00a0I recommend wearing that outfit that matches the venue and that you feel great in.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n
  5. Keep in touch with everyone to keep updated on their lives.<\/strong> \u00a0Facebook has been an excellent tool to keep in touch. \u00a0A quick flip through your news feed (or if you’re lucky like I am, you have an amazing coordinator who sets up a reunion page), and you have some great prep conversation when you get to the venue. \u00a0Quick tip: just reveal baseline information so you don’t cross the line of Facebook stalking.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    In addition, I connected with a few more friends after the reunion which made the evening even more worth while. \u00a0Although I can’t recall how much I enjoyed high school, I truly appreciated an evening with no cliques, no obsession about popularity, and no gossiping.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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    Invitation: Can we incorporate these mantras in our everyday life?<\/div>\n

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        Is it truly a milestone when you’re invited to your 25th high school reunion? \u00a0I’m not convinced it’s a milestone, but more of a celebration of life amongst my peers – many of whom I’ve grown up with since the second grade. \u00a0Obviously, I felt different compared to my 10 year reunion and<\/p>\n

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